One of the biggest traps actors fall into is settling. Don’t do it. You’ve got something special don’t aim to be good when you have the potential to be great. Push yourself. Keep learning, sharpening your talent, and stay in classes and workshops.
Don’t get lost in the weeds. Headshots, agents, managers, auditions, they matter. But zoom out and look at the big picture. Keep your eyes on your larger vision. That’s what shapes your path.
This business is all about relationships. Learn to connect, really connect. Listen. Make a genuine impression one that isn’t just handing over a resume. Volunteer at events, go to festivals, attend mixers for industry professionals.
Stay grounded. I love ambition, but be real about where you’re at. If you’re just starting out, maybe don’t expect your agent to book you the lead in a huge network series tomorrow. Aim high but keep your feet on the ground while you reach up.
Sometimes, just listen. You don’t always have to fill the space. You can learn so much just by observing especially from those with more experience.
Be skeptical. This industry is full of noise. Just because someone says they booked a pilot doesn’t mean it’s true. Sometimes “pilot” means a YouTube sketch their roommate filmed on an iPhone. Take it all with a grain of salt.
Not every opportunity is a good one. If something feels off, it’s okay to say no, whether it’s a sketchy photographer or a role that crosses your boundaries. Trust your instincts.
Keep taking creative risks. You made a bold move pursuing acting don’t stop now. Stay open, stay curious, and keep challenging yourself.
Take care of your head and heart. Rejection is part of the job, but it doesn’t define you. Learn to move through it without letting it break you.
Most importantly live your life. Don’t pause it for your career. Acting is about channeling real human experience, and you can’t do that if you’re not living. Make time for the people, places, and passions that feed your spirit. It’ll serve you well as an actor, and as a human being.
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That's a great idea, Alexandra Stevens! I'm not an actor, but I plan on trying it when I develop characters for my scripts. Thanks for the post and sharing the video....
Expand commentThat's a great idea, Alexandra Stevens! I'm not an actor, but I plan on trying it when I develop characters for my scripts. Thanks for the post and sharing the video.
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Thank you for the share!!!
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Absolutely do Alexandra Stevens. I listen to a ton of soundtracks and modern orchestral (Audiomachine). For Haven from "Haven of Dante", I listened to "Gap" from the Dark Phoenix soundtrack by Hans Zi...
Expand commentAbsolutely do Alexandra Stevens. I listen to a ton of soundtracks and modern orchestral (Audiomachine). For Haven from "Haven of Dante", I listened to "Gap" from the Dark Phoenix soundtrack by Hans Zimmer. For "Agents of C.O.W." I listened to "Colony" by Audiomachine. I grew up as an orchestral musician so that's most of what I know. I also write an screenplay around one song.
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I think music is such a powerful motivator as an actor to prepare to get into character. What would my character listen to? What mindset would she be in and what would be in her airpods while she's doing this? It adds emotional complexity to planning as an actor.
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Using music to develop your character's biography was one of the things suggested in acting class. I know that there are actors who make a playlist for the character and listen to while in hair and makeup.