Just wondering if anyone's ever come up against this... I'm toying with a narrative involving the life of a friend who's led a pretty varied existence over the last six years. And that's putting it mildly. Here's the problem though; her family is essentially family to me. So in spite of being able t...
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I've just completed a screenplay SHADES OF LOVE which details the experiences of a friend who had a love affair with a man behind his wife's back (she still doesn't know) His lover died and continues...
Expand commentI've just completed a screenplay SHADES OF LOVE which details the experiences of a friend who had a love affair with a man behind his wife's back (she still doesn't know) His lover died and continues to help him beyond the grave It's all amazingly true. Anyway, when I told him I wanted to write a book about it (I did and called it TWO SHADES OF GAY) he was happy with the idea and liked the book but the screenplay really gets inside his head and is quite different from the book. It's a message about the power of love. I sent him each draft and he told me if it is accurate. I've now polished the script and he is flattered I\ve taken the time to dramatise his life. I was up front from the start. i think this is the best way. i changed names and the location is generic (could be Britain, USA or Australia) It was actually NZ. The message here is be open with your friend. If they agree fine. if not, best think of a story that is not directly identifiable with them.
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One way out is to write it while its fresh in your mind and then save it.Time and distance will put everything in perhaps in better perspective and take some of the emotional sting out of it. I have a...
Expand commentOne way out is to write it while its fresh in your mind and then save it.Time and distance will put everything in perhaps in better perspective and take some of the emotional sting out of it. I have a friend who wrote a film as a slice of his life and I am sure he has no clue as to how bad it makes him look.He is evolving at his own pace.My other friend and I who encouraged him to write it, now have to beg off because any of the needed criticism of the movie will probably be seen as a personal attack.This is on top of demanding that he must have major control over the whole movie, when he is as green as they get.Its a danger to bring in family and friends on projects you see as work,Generally its best not to unless you have a very honest and open good working relationship. Its why many bands and entertainment relationships don't last and its a better choice to go for trust love and privacy with family with an occasional steal of character traits or odd story line.that's not true when you are doing a loving nostalgic story but if you are dealing with sensitive issues its a one sided bomb that is going to go off.
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I have a similar situation one of my pals! I've asked to write her story and she's concerned about jeopardizing individuals she came in contact with who had security clearances. I decided on developin...
Expand commentI have a similar situation one of my pals! I've asked to write her story and she's concerned about jeopardizing individuals she came in contact with who had security clearances. I decided on developing composite fictional characters and accounts "inspired by actual events." Otherwise I'd be forever stymied by getting clearances from hundreds of persons I don't know. -kaf