Acting : Uncomfortable audition story by Suzanne Bronson

Suzanne Bronson

Uncomfortable audition story

Charlize Theron has spoken about an uncomfortable audition she had with an well known director when she was starting out. This made me think, what about you? Do you have a story of an audition gone wrong, or a scary situation, and how did you handle it? What advice would you give to new actors going out on auditions on how to stay safe?

https://variety.com/2025/film/news/charlize-theron-director-sexual-pass-audition-1236446079/

Suzanne Bronson

Ok,, It would be great of some veterans would share an uncomfortable audition situation and what they did to stay safe,

Roderick T Martin

wow interesting that's goo d to know but they would be good as bystanders in the film!

Suzanne Bronson

Bumping this up.

Alexandra Stevens

Suzanne Bronson I haven't experienced that yet and hope I never will. Have you?

Suzanne Bronson

No, Alexandra Stevens I have not. But I have gone to auditions at people's houses. I called my bff and told her the address and if she hadn't heard from me in a half hour to call police. We had cell phones, but not even texting. This would be late 90s, early 00s. Fortunately, the people were on the level.

Nikoline Bangen

I actually lost a lead role early on in my career because I wouldn't let the director of the film sleep in my studio appartment. We had met twice, once during the audition and once having dinner to get to know eachother a little bit more. He then proceeded to call me around 4 am one night asking to sleep in my apartment as he had missed the train home. I had only one bed (that was also my couch) at the time, and explained this to him - said I was uncomfortable with this due to not knowing him and I felt it was unprofessional. I woke up to a text saying he couldn't work with someone he couldn't trust.

It broke my heart and I had a moment where I panicked and wondered whether my whole career would be like that, and if I would have to let people sleep in my bed in order to get roles, whether that was what the whole industry was like. But I decided that if that was the way it was then I didn't want it. I kept going, kept believing, and I have worked in film for over 17 years without having to do that, thankfully.

I'll be honest - sometimes I still wonder whether that is the reason why my career hasn't fully taken off in those 17 years of working towards my goals, but again - if that is the price I have to pay I think I would rather just keep making my own stuff and working with people I adore and trust who don't expect me to take my clothes off or go back on my values in order to prove that I am good enough, worthy enough or talented enough.

Keep working, keep moving, keep creating - and never let anyone tell you that you have to 'prove yourself' by doing anything other than being yourself and your talent.

And if you as a new actor (or even an experienced one) is going through something like this and need to talk to someone - my DMs are open, and my lips are sealed <3

Suzanne Bronson

Thank you for sharing your story Nikoline Bangen And I applaud you for sticking to your guns even as a newbie. That director was out of line, and he was the unprofessional one. unfortunately, I am sure you were not the first or the last actress he tried that with.

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