Hello everyone! Have you ever been around someone and they say "I'm bad with names."? I am notoriously bad with names and faces and as an actor, that can sometimes hurt.
Welcome, once again, to a story about how I screwed up! Ha!
About two years ago, I'm at a meeting of Central Pennsylvania filmmakers in York PA. It's pretty nice. People are dressed up a little, they're serving decent food and drinks and I'm talking to a few people I have worked with before.
After a few minutes of conversation with my friends, a very attractive lady walks up to me and starts in on our talk, specifically with me. I'm in my 50's, I'm old and fat and bald with a gray beard, so this sort of thing doesn't happen very often anymore but I took it as flattery and held the conversation, enjoying the moment.
After a few minutes, she stops, looks at me directly and says: "You have no idea who I am do you?" My friends go wide eyed and hide their faces with drinks. This is going to be good!
I stammer a bit. "I'm so sorry ma'am. I meet so many people. Have we worked together before?"
She playfully hits me on the arm. "I'm your god damned Agent you bastard!"
The entire circle of friends erupts in laughter and "Oh snap!" and "You screwed up bro!"
It was at that point that I realized that, of my three Agents (New York, Atlanta, and here locally in PA), I had only met one of them face to face up to that point and the one that I HAD met face to face, was when he signed me. The others, including Ms. Tashina Roberson, my local PA Agent (Central PA Talent, check her out if you're close), I had not actually met face to face. Everything was done with docusign, phone calls and emails. We still hadn't worked our way completely out of COVID it seems.
She is very forgiving and is still my Agent. AS a matter of fact, we were together earlier today for a Central PA Actors Panel. She's the one behind me, second from the right.
But this could have been worse. Though we all do it for one reason or another, I do know that in this game, remembering people you meet, especially your Agent, can have positive effects on your career. Some of us just have to get better at it. Myself included.
I'd love to hear of any instances where you have forgotten someone important to you and your career. Please don't tell me I'm the only one!
I await your responses, as I try to remember who I met at Cannes this year...
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This made me chuckle and may it serve as a reminder to all Actors out there that we are living in a very digital world these days, so taking the time to look up who is representing us is a smart idea....
Expand commentThis made me chuckle and may it serve as a reminder to all Actors out there that we are living in a very digital world these days, so taking the time to look up who is representing us is a smart idea. If they don't show up on IMDB then next place I would look is linked In, followed by any social medias. I am currently on the hunt for new agents in other regions & markets, and am definitely doing a deep google dive of their info before any submissions or setting up phone/zoom meetings.
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Brandon Keeton, you’re absolutely not the only one who’s had a moment like this. In an industry full of faces, reps, producers, and creatives, it’s so easy to lose track, especially when so many relat...
Expand commentBrandon Keeton, you’re absolutely not the only one who’s had a moment like this. In an industry full of faces, reps, producers, and creatives, it’s so easy to lose track, especially when so many relationships are built virtually now. That “you have no idea who I am” moment is a rite of passage at this point!
It’s a great reminder of how important face-to-face connection still is, and how much grace (and humor) we can bring into our professional missteps. Also, huge props to your agent for being both forgiving and hilarious, that sounds like a solid relationship right there.
Thanks again for opening up this conversation in the Lounge. I’m sure so many actors can relate and I hope more chime in with their own memory slip stories too!
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Brandon Keeton I really appreciate your frank, honest, humble and entertaining shares. I haven't forgotten anyone's face yet that I was actually in conversation with. Although I have definitely forgot...
Expand commentBrandon Keeton I really appreciate your frank, honest, humble and entertaining shares. I haven't forgotten anyone's face yet that I was actually in conversation with. Although I have definitely forgotten names. I think i would feel absolutely mortified in your situation but on the other hand, if you have never actually met in-person or by video call then it's also understandable. I mean we all lead busy lives right?