I once read a beautiful comparison: life is like a journey on a train.
And the longer I work in this industry, the more I believe that acting might be one of the most honest versions of that journey.
When we are born into this profession — when we first step onto the train of acting — we meet people we believe will stay with us forever. Teachers. Mentors. Parents. Early supporters. The ones who tell us we are talented, that we should go for it, that we belong on this path. For a while, they sit right next to us. And then, often without warning, they get off at a station we didn’t expect. Some leave because life calls them elsewhere. Some because they no longer understand our choices. Some because their role in our journey is simply finished.
At the next stations, new passengers enter the train. Fellow actors. Directors. Coaches. Producers. Friends we form on sets, in rehearsal rooms, in waiting areas outside casting offices. Some of them see the journey as a short ride — one project, one collaboration, then they’re gone. Others sit with us for years, sharing long stretches of doubt, hope, success, rejection, and growth.
There are passengers who travel lightly, as if acting were just a pleasant walk through life. And there are others who carry heavy luggage — disappointment, financial pressure, comparison, fear. Some passengers are always ready to help those who stumble. Others leave the train so quietly that we barely noticed they were there at all. And some leave behind something deeper: longing, gratitude, a sense of “what could have been.”
What often surprises us most is that some of the people we care about deeply move to a different wagon. They are still on the same train, still in the same industry — but suddenly we are no longer sitting side by side. Our careers diverge. Our rhythms change. Our opportunities don’t align. And yes, many of us try to make our way through the wagons, pushing past doubts and obstacles, hoping to sit next to them again.
Sometimes we make it.
Sometimes we don’t — because the seat beside them is already taken.
And that, too, is part of this journey.
Acting is a path filled with challenges, dreams, fantasies, hopes, and farewells. It is a journey without guarantees and without return tickets. None of us knows when we will get off this train. And just as little do we know when the people sitting next to us will leave — not even the ones who feel inseparable today.
If I’m honest, I believe there will be a moment of sadness when I step off this train one day. Saying goodbye to people I met along the way will hurt. Leaving loved ones behind will feel heavy. But there is also hope in this image. The hope that there is a central station somewhere — a place where all these journeys make sense. And the quiet comfort of imagining the people I cared about arriving there with luggage they didn’t have when they first stepped onto the train.
What matters most to me is this thought:
that I may have helped make that luggage heavier — not with burden, but with value. With experience. With courage. With memories.
So, to my fellow actors and creatives reading this on Stage32:
let’s try to make this journey a good one. Let’s treat our fellow passengers with respect. Let’s remember that at any point someone next to us may be struggling and might need understanding — just as we will, more than once, need someone who understands us.
And when we eventually step off the train, let’s try to leave behind an empty seat filled with longing, gratitude, and good memories. A seat that tells those who continue the journey: it was worth sharing this part of the ride with you.
None of us knows the final station.
But we can choose how we travel — and what kind of passenger we are along the way.
To everyone on this train with me:
have a good journey.
Dan Martin Roesch
https://www.imdb.com/name/nm6401783/
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So many incredible movies and shows, Sam Rivera! It's going to be hard picking wins!