When I first began networking, I thought it was a competition to see how many business cards I could get. I got quite a few, but it didn't really amount to anything. Looking back it, I feel cringe, but I did what I thought was right at the time. Better to do something than nothing and learn from it. We're all works in progress anyway.
Later, I gave up on networking and decided to be authentically me. I still approached people and stayed open to serendipity. I didn't force anything and found myself with a natural appreciation for certain people.
This has played out with finding mentors in my day job after we had initial 1x1s and worked with screenwriting. Having other writers with diverse viewpoints read my work has vastly improved my scripts. Meeting directors who want to work with a good writer has given me insight into how they think, how they view my work, and why "show don't tell" is so important.
Attending Ghost Ranch retreat in New Mexico has been a game changer for building community. Spending a week with people deepens those connections like nothing I've experienced before. The bonus is having people to hang out with at festivals like AFF , in addition to meeting their friends of friends and more.
I don't have a magical networking success story where we banded together like a band of misfit-writing Avengers yet. Or how it propelled me to massive superstardom. My networking definition changed over time to those at or slightly above my level, rather than hoping some A-lister would pluck me out of the crowd and change my life.
When I'm ready to make my short, I have everything I need to get started. I see others struggles and learnings and they are generous with their advice. For that I'm grateful. That is what I see as success in networking. We're here to help each other and grow in our respective journeys.
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Congratulations, Chris & Melinda! "A twist on the classic fairy tale told from point of view of Cinderella's mischievous sisters." That's unique! Using the POV of different characters in stories (majo...
Expand commentCongratulations, Chris & Melinda! "A twist on the classic fairy tale told from point of view of Cinderella's mischievous sisters." That's unique! Using the POV of different characters in stories (major characters, minor characters, and unexpected characters) is a great way to come up with script ideas. I'm looking forward to watching SAVING CINDERELLA, Chris & Melinda!
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Way to ROCK, Chris and Melinda! Congratulations on your win with "Saving Cinderella!"
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WOOHOO! Congrats, Chris and Melinda!